![]() Rebooting can be done and you CAN do it and reap the benefits. Otherwise, you are going to have a tough time. Be clear on your goals and the reasons for those goals. If you're going hard mode (p, m, and o-free), the "bad" news is these hookups are breaking the terms of your reboot. If you're going porn and masturbation-free, your hands need to be out of your pants no matter what the reason, unless you're with an actual, real-life guy. If you're only going porn free, and aren't masturbating to these pics or apps, you're meeting the terms of your reboot. Last question is: what are the terms of your reboot? Are you going porn-free only? Are you going porn AND masturbation-free? Or, are you going hard mode - porn, masturbation AND orgasm-free? Maybe tell guys in your profile that x-rated pics will be blocked? One of the goals of NoFap, in addition to breaking the PMO addiction is developing a healthy sexuality with real people. If you're going to dating sites with the intent of actually dating, that's different. But, what, other than a quick dopamine fix, are you getting from the hookups? Do they leave you with the desire for more and does that cause you to see out porn and masturbation? If so, I'm afraid that could negatively impact your reboot. Many people continue to try to meet people during their reboots. The real questions are:ġ) Do you get aroused and eventually masturbate because of these pictures? If so, they count as porn.Ģ) Do you get aroused and eventually masturbate from just being on those sites/apps? If so, porn.ģ What is more important to you at this point in your life: hookups or freedom from addiction? I'm gay, too, and I understand that dating and hookup apps are big ways we meet guys. You're going to get a lot of different answers to your question. Click to expand.Hi, and welcome to NoFap.
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